First Things First – There is no Right, no Wrong

Its important to clarify a few things before I start writing. Most of what I write may sound controversial to many. You may feel that I’m challenging their beliefs, trying to prove you are wrong or projecting myself as perfect.

I strongly believe there is no such thing as right and wrong. Its all a relative thing. What is right for one may sound totally wrong for another. A simple thing like girls wearing jeans is fine with most women, but for some showing off their faces in public too is not. Terrorism, killing people is so wrong for a majority of us. But talk to the terrorists, they will have enough reasons to justify it. They have been brought up that way and are even willing to give up their lives for their cause.

You can take any subject, everyone is bound to have their viewpoint. One that they feel is right and that everyone must follow that. Its fine to have an opinion or belief and follow that. But I believe imposing that on someone and expecting them to believe that is not correct. There I already have defined something wrong. Well, that’s what I believe, others may not.

So in this blog, I may write a number of radical thoughts. That does not mean what I’m saying is right. I just expect to provoke people to think. Think different from what we have been brought up with. Make your OWN opinion about everything rather than blindly following what is “tradition”. The only fear I have is whether I will be able to communicate what I mean.

Finally, I do have a simple right and wrong for myself – As long as you mentally and physically don’t harm anyone, whatever you do is right. Simple?

It’s finally here

It’s finally here – the first post after over 3 years of registering this blog on WordPress!

There are always a ton of thoughts constantly running through my head. There never seems to be a silent moment. Over the years, my perceptions towards life, work, career, relationships, god and everything has changed dramatically. I always wanted to write and share these with people around and also for myself to introspect some years later. I wish I was writing earlier too. But it’s never too late to start. So here it is.

So why did I not start a blog earlier? Blame my habit of having everything perfect before starting. I know it’s not a good thing. Just like most geeks, I wanted my own website, my own blogging engine instead of using wordpress or blogger. I didn’t want to use a software I can’t control. I did build my website builder finally. But it’s more of a website builder rather than a blogging platform. Its still not perfect and will never be. I know one thing for sure, I’ll never be satisfied. So, instead of waiting for the “perfect” software, which will never be, I’ll use WordPress for the time being.

There are a ton of things to write, so many ideas, thoughts to share. Like most bloggers, not sure what I’ll achieve. But one thing’s for sure – my writing skills must improve.